Monthly Archives: September 2010


What does satisfaction means?.Is it a feeling that make people stop at one point or something that makes one very happy?

Consider a person who is starving for long time , one's if he gets good food to eat, his minds says to him ” wow what a food…i am so full and very satisfied after this long starvation”.What happens to the same person if he is not really starving and eats the same food at that point of time his mind says ” Why didn't i get that item for lunch today, i think this is just OK”.Is he satisfied?,And why did the situation change ,even though it is the same person.I think it is because of the choice he has.

Once a choice comes into mind , then starts confusions,then there are possibilities of either choosing this way or other .I don't think every choice we get in life is better than other , there are many situations in life where we need to choose from choices that are equally good , each leading different ways of life. Choosing in those situation is the most complicated task than in any other , in those situations ,one best way to decide is to think about long run from now what is the

effect of my decision …visualizing our self what impact it is going to be in our life and decide it cleverly.

Most important situation where we need to be very careful in deciding will be our career,marriage and friends.According to me, Career and Life are two parallel tracks that we need to handle them very carefully.Choosing ,which filed to go, is what going to decide what we are going to be in our professional life that may be a good doctor,engineer,actor,singer,business man , politician or anything.Other most important choice that we make in life is choosing a good life-partner, Our complete family life depends on how your partner is ,how compatible you are.One other choice that enriches your life is friends .Choosing friends depending how they advice you,how they help you when you need them.If , we are very careful in these three choices, According to me life will be on track.

For me every crucial decision i make always had choices which are equally good and equally challenging. It is always good to visualize the impact of the decision we make in long-run.



I thought this is a very good topic to write and discuss.It is one of few things that a person can feel and act accordingly, it can be anything inspiring talks, movies , incidents or may be even the situations which make a person think and holds his feeling to do something.

It is a feature that is developed from childhood.When i was young , In school our teachers use to tell inspiring stories ranging from freedom fighter to young children who won awards for their brave acts. One can get inspired by anything even from the insulting comments , teasing talks or hurting feelings.But, the way they take depends on individuals personality.For me if some one says something or does insulting comments, only way to answer them is keep quit at that moment and answer them by taking that as a challenge .Do it and show it to them what you are and what you are capable of doing.That will be the best answer to give rather than arguing with them, i strongly believe that , if you do this way, they will realize what you are and will can never face you directly.It is a way to permanently shut their mouths once for all with out even a single word.It is like you development makes them shut up.

Let me tell you one incident that i faced in my college days.I was introvert during my college days , so i was always busy with my studies or my work and never bothered or did bother any one in clas

s, but i was always into studies .Once there was an internal exam that was conducted and i spoiled the exam ,literally, i just passed. A naughty guy in our class commented about my score before every one. I felt really bad and tears were about to roll from my eyes, i just controlled myself a lot. Then i decided in my mind , I need to answer this guy with my score in this semester. I planned my semester perfectly, what i need to do and how should i achieve that. My approach was systematic , my planning was perfect ,i schedule my time and attained perfection in every topic i studied as i spent tons of my time and energy.

Finally , the days approached that was my final exams.I know , what i did all semester and what i want the result to be.I did all my exams really well.Finally the day came, our results were out and as everyone in class checked our score online. I went to college.Everyone started to congratulate . I just looked into the face of that naughty guy and he never replied for my look.

Every one came to know about my potential and i thought i have answered to that guys comments.

For me every incident in life counts and i would never leave without replying to the comments that i listen or get to know about.Only way to reply other is “Do it and Shut their mouths once for all”.Best way to take the insult is “Take it as a challenge and prove yourself”.


Indian crabs

One thing i noticed in Indian's is Indian Crab mentality.Let me explain Indian Crabs story.Once they were shipping some live crabs from different countries in containers and all the containers from different countries were closed and sealed except for crabs from India, one of the sailor got doubt about it and asked his co-sailor,why didn't you close that container's Lid.The answer for that was like this, Check it out,every crab which is trying to climb to top is pulled down by the other crab and so on.So they will never come out of the container,that is the specialty of Indian crabs.

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>That is not only story of Indian Crabs ,but many Indians mentality.Some incidents in life make my feeling more stronger. Recently, I came across few people, who made me realize this fact.I know people work for their own benefit,According to me it is good only to some extend ,If they use others to make their money that is not going to get good result in long run ,even though it gets some result now.My Strong belief says that “Every thing that you do to other will exactly happen to you ,no matter at what point of time”.Not everyone is like that but now a days most of them are like this,so it becomes very difficult to calculate and behave with people some times.