Forgive & Forget

Forgive & Forget,those were the most influential words from my Dad on me.Not only me but these will be the words that has lot of influence on many people life , if they are truly understood.When someone causes pain through their act , first we need to think about the incident rather than shouting at the person and then analyze it throughly on our role .Judge the incident and our role in it. If our heart truly says that , it is the fault of other person who caused the pain to us then first we need to forgive the person but remember the incident that caused pain and act smartly next time.Forget the event of pain , if you truly think that the person has changed.

Forgive and Forget helps to change once way of thinking...

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The Corporate

Before I entered the corporate world. I have very little exposure about this world.I know it is all people and people’s thought that takes a Company’s name .When I see managers talking on phone to their customers or clients they Say “XXX Sys” want this Or Is going to provide this service etc. But, what matters is,even if the Manager want to do that he takes the name of the company.It many be good / bad depending on the decisions made by the Manager/Company.

What does a company do? Does it make you to do what they want Or they respect you and encourage you in the field you want to work. This again differs from person to person. If a person with selfish deeds is your manager , he/she will make you do what they want irrespective to your career growth in the field...

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What so Ever…

Not sure why sometime…we feel low……even if we have everything needed…one of reasons…..may be our mind goes through all the bad things happened…… kind of makes our heart feel low and heavy, but what so ever happens will have lot of impact on oneself.Somethings wont be easy to digest and we cant force our heart to get the control and drive it the way we want…kind of becomes very difficult sometime….

Don't know , why things happen may be for good or may be for bad…but , it will be hard to get back from certain things that bothers us, what ev

er it may be….with a reason or without a reason.

Certain things will never be clear and will become tougher to understood, if you try harder to know things...

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One whole day’s Experience

I cant forget this day, very strenuous and very happy day . Even though it happened that i came to US two years before, I dont have license to drive car…..Its not going to matter if it were to be India…..But in US , if i dont have license to drive a car,it is like fully handicapped. I managed my University life very easily , as we had transits, college shuttle and few friends .But after i finished my education … i realized the value of car….!!! , Frustrated many times as it will be a helpless situations and cant afford paying for taxi's (damn expensive)...

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What does satisfaction means?.Is it a feeling that make people stop at one point or something that makes one very happy?

Consider a person who is starving for long time , one's if he gets good food to eat, his minds says to him ” wow what a food…i am so full and very satisfied after this long starvation”.What happens to the same person if he is not really starving and eats the same food at that point of time his mind says ” Why didn't i get that item for lunch today, i think this is just OK”.Is he satisfied?,And why did the situation change ,even though it is the same person.I think it is because of the choice he has.

Once a choice comes into mind , then starts confusions,then there are possibilities of either choosing this way or other ...

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I thought this is a very good topic to write and discuss.It is one of few things that a person can feel and act accordingly, it can be anything inspiring talks, movies , incidents or may be even the situations which make a person think and holds his feeling to do something.

It is a feature that is developed from childhood.When i was young , In school our teachers use to tell inspiring stories ranging from freedom fighter to young children who won awards for their brave acts. One can get inspired by anything even from the insulting comments , teasing talks or hurting feelings.But, the way they take depends on individuals personality...

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Indian crabs

One thing i noticed in Indian's is Indian Crab mentality.Let me explain Indian Crabs story.Once they were shipping some live crabs from different countries in containers and all the containers from different countries were closed and sealed except for crabs from India, one of the sailor got doubt about it and asked his co-sailor,why didn't you close that container's Lid.The answer for that was like this, Check it out,every crab which is trying to climb to top is pulled down by the other crab and so on.So they will never come out of the container,that is the specialty of Indian crabs.

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That is not only story of Indian Crabs ,but many Indians mentality.Some incidents in life make my feeling more stronger...

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One Card Where My Eyes Struck…

It is long time that i updated my website, i was little busy in settling my career.Hm , i might not have updated my website, if i didn't have seen that card. I was just wandering around the shop and accidentally , the message on the card made me read everything on the card.The card goes like this…

Our Relationship has never followed the rules.

We've never been the kind of fairy-tale couple you see in movies.

It seems like we're either head over heels in love or crazy with frustration.

We're not perfect, and neither is this relationship.

But you know what?

It's ours. All ours-the little jokes that only we understand, the way our hands naturally find each others, and the memories that seem so wonderful now that we loop back.

Our relationship will never be perfect, but it will always be an im...

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Post Graduate

I wore my Grad gown and the hat…..Finally.

I Still don’t believe….I got my Masters and made many people proud of me.I am very Glad for that.It was an Awesome day in my life,walked before the Heads of the University,the Dean Congratulating and my batch-mates cheering .My staff shouting my name when i was taking the certificate awesome ..feeling…. i came to know that my parents just missed watching the live show on internet but they made it in the closing of the ceremony…….All and all there are tones of photographs with my friends,Host family,professor,Staff .The party was amazing ,went where most of my near and dear could make it except for few.Every one was happy had a delicious cake.In my whole life I never wore Point heel which i wore on my Graduation with a formal skirt…....

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Struggle to finish My Journey

Its been two years i came to Wichita , for completing my Masters and happy that i am finally done with my Masters and about to enter into whole new journey.Let me share few experiences during Masters.I came to WSU with few of my Bachelor's friends,But as expected they behaved harshly and which resulted in my  room shft( It did happen due to their harsh words though).I always take things as it come and so felt that what ever happens is for Good and It will always be true at the end.I had whole new experiences and was finally in to dorms.I came to know how people talk before you and behind you.I know how they try to use you , spread rumors, take things for granted and all other stuff which effected me a lot but built a lot of confidence to face any kind of situation in my life...

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